Warm greetings to you there!
My name is Victoria Eboh and I am a minister of the gospel, a marriage and youth counselor, a motivational speaker and a coach in training at the International Coaching and Counselling Institute (The ICCI) in Den Haag Netherlands.
Growing up as a child, I felt unloved, I felt different from others and felt I was treated differently too. I strived harder than others to be loved and to get the attention of my parents but no matter how hard I tried, I still felt like the black sheep. These feelings as a young child pushed me further to be become rebellious in every way you can think of. My rebellious ways brought me more condemnation than the attention I craved for from my parents.
In my quest and determination to prove to my parents that I am not what they say I am, I successfully graduated from university with a Bachelor of Arts (BA) in Theatre arts and a Diploma in Mass Communication.
On arriving to The Netherlands, in my search for self-realization and inner peace, I embarked on several theological courses and was officially ordained a pastor and minister of the gospel in the year 2017.
I am now in my second and final year at The ICCI to become a coach.
Guess what… I proved my parents wrong ….. I am not the black sheep!
My experience growing up as a child motivated me to work with young adults. I also developed the passion to help give a voice of expression to every child that feels misunderstood by family, society or even the world at large.
For over 10 years I have been teaching, ministering, counselling and camping with teenagers, youths and also children with special needs. This experience together with my childhood experience has made me come to a personal realization that there is no such thing as a difficult child but we only have children that are crying for love and attention and this has further ignited my passion to give a helping hand to them.
My greatest discovery while working with teenagers and youths was that 70% of my clients were from broken /divorced homes, single parents and unstable/troubled homes. This automatically navigated my path to working with parents as well and focusing mostly on their relationships and marriages in order to help me get a better result with their children. This has proven to be a tremendous success!
My sound message to my clients from my experience is:
- Every defeat in life does not mean you are defeated.
- Every failure does not make you a failure.
- Life is meant to be enjoyed not endured.
- Every troubled relationship must not end up in divorce or separation.
- No child deserves to be written off.
- Why give up when you have not exhausted all options….Yes there are more options.
The Person-Centered approach which I use in practice will enable me to help you use the stones that life has thrown at you to build an empire.
It is my greatest desire as a coach in training to help you get the vehicle of your life and family running again!
I look forward to hearing from you.